Difference between girls and boys having feelings for others

How often do you have feelings for guy/girl when you saw one passing by or with a group of friends?

I have to say that it is easy for boys (even ones with girlfriends) to have feelings for many girls they randomly see. So I kind of feel like this is something that is so common for boys to the point that they don't think of it as anything important or special. Of course, unless it is the type of boys who are willing to cheat or does not have a girlfriend and wants one would go for them. But let's talk about the ones that won't cheat or have more self control. They actually still have feelings for other girl. Don't you think so, Mr Boy? Of course, maybe this is so common to you that you don't even consider that as feeling.  So they don't have to care about this. But if this is like this way then it is different: first boys become friends with a girl and feelings are being developed. If more then one girl, then it depends on how things goes. The result is can be that I boy keep silent and end up with someone else, the boy will like one of the girl, can end up like both girls, or like both but choose one that he prefer more.
Hey love is not about feelings. It is self sacrificing.

As for girls, I find it weird. Girls seem like they don't have feeling for boys most of the boys. So when they have feelings for a boy, they actually go crazy. If the boy continue to attack her emotion. That girl can lost and be with him. Why I said this? This is because I learned some thing in biology, read a book about girl's brain and saw some very conscious who does not believe what I said who ended in this situation. So compared to boys, having feelings for a girl is like once in a blue moon. This is true, someone who is very conscious and does things to the point, and they think some people who is so crazy in the relationship was stupid actually ended up that way. It is not a bad thing to be that way. It is good to like someone that way. I also find it strange that when girls become best friends with a boy, they will say we are friends and only friends. Seems like becoming close as a friend with girl actually make the girl like you least while it is opposite for a boy. Last I was watching TV and some girl rejected guy by saying "...If there is anything that I gave you the wrong impression, I am sorry." I was like, "ahh being a girl is already making the boy attracted to you. You don't have to do anything."


I would say guys probably have feeling for girls at a rate of 8 girls per a minute. Which girls are 1/16 boys per a minute. Just an example. Not accurate prediction. But probably have similar approximation ratio result.

So I still think that it is like nothing when you have feelings for someone as a boy but it is really a big deal for a girl. Do you disagree? If you do, please post your comment.

But even if you disagree, it can't be proved. Because, a boy or a girl can't switch bodies to experience how they would feel if they change gender. Obvious, if you change body, your emotion will change, hormone will change and maybe your whole personality will change. So you will feel something totally different.